Thanks everyone for the interesting feedback. Lots of good thoughts and discussion.
I think that ultimately it comes down to the fact that it’s between me and God. He has called me to serve His people at this church. While I would love to wear jeans on a Sunday morning I realize that this isn’t about me. Am I willing to serve where He sends me? Even if that means I can’t wear jeans? Even if I have to sell all my stuff? Get a passport? Leave my family? Risk my life?